Of the usual remedies nothing seems to work. I have removed stimulation, caffeine, sweets, happiness. I have taken valerian root, melatonin, kava, chamomile, warm milk. I have relaxed in ways varied, extreme, frightening, baffling, lovely. I have listened to light, regulated my music intake, exercised my demons, orgasmed tremendously. Yet nothing works as well as you beside me. And tequila.